To The People Who Always Put Others Before Themselves You are loved. Meera Sinha Meera Sinha Apr 26, 2016. views. views. comments. So if others arent able to show you love yet, you need to love yourself.
Put yourself first once in a while. Its hard to do that. It might seem selfish, but I promise that it isnt. Take He put everybodys life before His own. In situations where the question arises, do I put this person before myself? I stop and think about what Jesus did for me and then I gladly put that person first.
The third person who has also showed me the value of putting others first is my own mother. My mother has always put her two daughters The Golden Rule, Do unto others as you would have them do unto you is an ancient, wellaccepted rule for reciprocity. However, it comes up short for achieving success in business and in life. However, it comes up short for achieving success in There is a huge myth in our culture that it's time to shake up the idea that putting yourself first is selfish.
When you love another person (whether it's your partner, a family member or friend), you prioritize thinking about their desires, needs, interests, proclivities and so on, right? Putting others before yourself is easier when you are serving them. But just because someone is in a serving position does not mean that they are serving with the right attitude.
Maybe you have met the people who are involved in the service industry who dont enjoy serving others. Women often fall into the pattern of taking care of loved ones before taking care of themselves, but the consequences of doing so can be harmful. Valerie Monroe explores the reasons why putting yourself first isn't selfish, but essential. Furthermore, as I begin to put others before my own interests, I feel my life has a meaningful purpose and direction.
There was an article written by Anne Keegan, a reporter for the Chicago Tribune Magazine, about a man named George. Why Its Healthy to Put Yourself First (emphasis mine) If you dont reach out to other people when youre feeling sad, angry, low or lonely, you can end up turning to unhealthy sources of comfort.
They put everyone else before themselves, she said. For some, saying yes is a habit; for others, its almost an addiction that makes them feel like they need to be needed.